It would be all about freedom.
I have shared some part of my story in one of my answers. I really like my innovative story which I wrote in high school and then threw those pages in my store room, never knowing what all I could do with those pages. Well, it is all about time.
My main focus always stays on freedom. When a person is free, there is happiness all around. That's the time when a person knows deeply about him/herself. Freedom is mandatory. Being slave of either expectations or responsibilities won't do any good. Have responsibilities but you should not feel like a slave. That would be distasteful.